Royal Wedding

I've been thinking about when I realized that feminist movement ended.
I was just 18 during the summer of 1981. I worked as an intern for ERAmerica in Washington, DC. ERAmerica was a coalition to extend the deadline for states to ratify the Equal Rights Amendment.
Text:
Section 1. Equality of rights under the law shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any State on account of sex.
Section 2. The Congress shall have the power to enforce, by appropriate legislation, the provisions of this article.
Section 3. This amendment shall take effect two years after the date of ratification.

Two other important things happened the summer Ronald Reagan was President.
1. Princess Diana got married
2. Sandra Day O'Connor was appointed to the Supreme Court to replace Potter Stewart.

I was one of those 18yo girls who didn't have "getting married" on my mind. I was still a virgin and planned to stay that way until I met the right one. After a few weeks a ERAmerica, I found a boyfriend on the District of Columbia law clerks softball team I managed to infiltrate. The women in the office were amazed. And then there was Diana's wedding. I didn't watch, thought the dress and pomp were silly. Yet the women in the office were salivating.

When it came to Sandra Day O'Connor appointment, they were all trying to figure out where she stood on issues. I called the Arizona State Senate and spoke to her Admin. Reading between the Admin's lines, I concluded that Sandra was indeed for a woman's right to choose. That was the only issue I cared about. Making sure the government didn't have control of what I did. I couldn't rally around .59 on a dollar for similar work. If a woman wanted to be a sanitation worker and lift cans as heavy as a man - yes, they should get paid the same. But if they sat in the office and picked up the phone receiver - no.

Looking back I now realize that at that moment feminism was over. Now most women (including me) are taking the easy way out. Their daughters are protected while their sons are taught to swim. They sign up boys for t-ball and girls for arts & crafts. It's no wonder boys are better in sports than girls.

I'm not raising my daughter that way. But it's hard when everyone else sees boys and girls. Even the books they are given to read have boy and girl roles.

In a way this all can be good for Cutie. She will be the smart and strong girl among a lot of mediocrity.

And now it's another royal wedding of William and Kate. And no, I'm not waking at 4am to watch it. Well, maybe on you tube.