Friday, December 31, 2010

2010 What Cutie is Doing

Since this is my version of a baby book, I need to report on Cutie's progress.
Cutie is in first grade. She is currently in love with reading the Junie B Jones book series. She reads in the car, the bus and when her friend is over.
She just passed ice skating Basic Skills level 6 and she is putting together a routine for a competition. Because her skills are advanced, she will be competing in Free Style 1. I'm a little nervous for her. I guess we can ask grandma to come.
Next year we have Synchronized Ice Skating either the Skyliners (really far away in CT - but the brand team) or Team Image (closer, but not as organized.)
Paulo's dad, Henry is doing well. She was airlifted to the hospital, yet a doctor didn't see him until morning. Being a Dr. himself, he was pretty pissed that that wasted money with the airlift. He needs to write an Op Ed moving the needle for healthcare in the US. He was the doctor for many presidents, members of supreme court and congress. He can tell you how it was and what it is now and what's wrong with it.
I worked on the 2010 Census this past summer and loved it. I'm doing a few websites part-time and looking for the next big move. Maybe 2011 will be it.

New Years Songs to remember

Welcome To The Future" - Brad Paisley
"The New Year" - Death Cab For Cutie
"What Are You Doing New Year's Evening" - King Curtis
"A Long December" - @countingcrows
"Brand New Day" - Neil Patrick Harris
"New Year's Day" - U2
"Happy New Year" - Abba
"Ding, Dong" - George Harrison
"Another One Bites The Dust" - Queen
"Goodbye To You" - Scandal
"Years" - Beth Nielsen Chapman
"Ever Changing Times" - Aretha Franklin
"364 Days To Go" - @BradPaisley
"Yesterdays" - Guns N' Roses
"Hell Yeah" - Neil Diamond
"Happy New Year" - Todd Snider
"Dreams" - The Cranberries
"In The New Year" - The Walkmen
"One Drop" - Bob Marley
"A New Shore" - Steven Page
"Glad To Be Alive" - Joe Zelek
"It's Raining Me" - The Weather Girls
"Hair Of The Dog" - Nazareth
"New York And Light" - Stephen Pickering
"Time Warp" -

Thursday, December 23, 2010

The Garage

We are finally decided on converting the greenhouse into a garage. Since we couldn't agree on anything and were at a standstill, I finally gave up what I wanted and am letting Paulo do everything. One of the reason I didn't have furniture when I was single was because I either couldn't afford what I liked or couldn't make up my mind. It was the same with the greenhouse. The guys are working through the freezing winter with big machinery.

We are watching my brother's dog Mysty again. It's so adorable to watch Lila and Mysty run around the property.

Paulo finally bought a video camera. With Cutie doing waltz jumps in ice skating and cartwheels in gymnastics, it was about time. To bad we don't have Kindergarten graduation on tape - but we will have the Siddur ceremony at the end of 1st grade.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Chanuka 2010

I've never been a fan of holidays. I like the family gatherings, but was never a fan of the gift-giving process. I prefer giving people gifts as I think of them. The idea of hoarding and waiting for the moment is pretty ridiculous. But I play the game and freak out a week before the gift-giving takes place. Poor cutie had to witness my meltdown this year.
This year's gifts to Cutie (Lego Beach House, Life, Underarmour Coldwear, foot warmers, hand-me-down ipod, ipod clock radio, itunes card)

Last year we took a family collection and gave each child a Visa Gift Card. This year no one wanted to do it so Cutie got her family presents and finally understood why Mom hates presents. Everyone got junky things to play with at the gathering. Cutie got a Coach bag "she's 6" and I stopped the whole Coach thing when the family was bought out by a company that eventually took them public. She got a gardening kit - have you seen our backyard! And she got rollee wheels, you know the sneakers with the wheels on the bottom in a size too small. Yes, she now understands why I'm the gift scrooge.

Now if we can all just go ice skating or swimming.
This year's biggest hit!
Candlelight by the macabeats
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSJCSR4MuhU

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Cutie and Skype

Paulo is with his dad for the week and Cutie misses him. Last night we video skyped. She read him "You Can't Win, Charlie Brown" while explaining who was talking in the cartoon. He has lots of patience. After reading they sent skype messages. (Emotives don't copy and paste)
Dad: Hi Aliza![11/23/2010 9:46:22 PM]
Aliza: Hi dad I miss you please come back
Dad: I miss you too (F)
Dad: Bed time!!![
Dad: knock[11/23/2010 9:48:28 PM]
Aliza: Knock knock :)[11/23/2010 9:48:48 PM]
Dad: Who's there? (smirk)[11/23/2010 9:50:31 PM]
Aliza: Please (wasntme)[11/23/2010 9:50:37 PM]
Dad: Please who?[11/23/2010 9:52:07 PM]
Aliza: Please with a chbrry[11/23/2010 9:53:32 PM]
Aliza: On top (hug)[11/23/2010 9:53:57 PM]
Dad: Knock Knock![11/23/2010 9:56:41 PM]
Aliza: Who there (wave)[11/23/2010 10:00:01 PM]
Aliza: We are having fun :D[11/23/2010 10:02:04 PM]
Aliza: 10;01 pm (*)[11/23/2010 10:02:38 PM]
Dad: (yawn)[11/23/2010 10:02:42 PM]
Aliza: 10;o3 pm[11/23/2010 10:03:17 PM]
Dad: (yawn)[11/23/2010 10:04:36 PM]
Dad: See you later (wave) on (skype)[11/23/2010 10:06:53 PM]
Aliza: Bi I love you (h):*[11/23/2010 10:07:09 PM]
Dad: Good night! I (h) you too![9:00:04 AM] *** Call to Henry Feffer, no answer. ***

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Random


My mom bought me ice skates for my birthday - I'm like OK - nearing 50 - but everyone likes stuff like that for their b-day. She made it clear I was not to buy them online. She also bought Paulo a pair. He bought them Online.

I'm at the skate shop at Sport-O-Rama in Monsey. I Buy a pair of Jackson Mystique. As they were sharpening the skates, I was watching some sort of dancing on the ice. I was mesmerized. This was so cool. turns out it was synchronized skating. They were the Skyliners team. http://www.skylinerssynchro.com/
Turns out there's an intro class starting Monday in Greenwich, CT. I sign Cutie up. I've signed up for driving her every Monday to Greenwich (21 miles away) for 8 weeks. If she makes the team - Until she's in college. Oh Joy.


Yesterday another random activity. We were at Nyack State Park and there was an art auction to benefit Keep Rockland Beautiful. Aliza decided to draw a picture and put it in the show. It sold for $100 and she's been asked to be a member of Artists in the Park. http://artistsintheparks.org/


My life has always been random. I'm not sure if that's good. But it's sure fun.


Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Cutie is 6 Today




We had an Ice Skating Birthday Party with her friend on Sunday. There were about 35 children and many parents got on the ice.
















Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Benjamin Netanyahu's speech to the UN

Mr. President, Ladies and Gentlemen,
Nearly 62 years ago, the United Nations recognized the right of the Jews, an ancient
people 3,500 years-old, to a state of their own in their ancestral homeland. I stand here today as the Prime Minister of Israel, the Jewish state, and I speak to you on behalf of my country and my people. The United Nations was founded after the carnage of World War II and the horrors of the Holocaust. It was charged with preventing the recurrence of such horrendous events.
Nothing has undermined that central mission more than the systematic assault on the
truth. Yesterday the President of Iran stood at this very podium, spewing his latest anti-
Semitic rants. Just a few days earlier, he again claimed that the Holocaust is a lie. Last month, I went to a villa in a suburb of Berlin called Wannsee. There, on January 20, 1942, after a hearty meal, senior Nazi officials met and decided how to exterminate the Jewish people. The detailed minutes of that meeting have been preserved by successive German governments. Here is a copy of those minutes, in which the Nazis issued precise instructions on how to carry out the extermination of the Jews. Is this a lie? A day before I was in Wannsee, I was given in Berlin the original construction plans for the Auschwitz-Birkenau concentration camp. Those plans are signed by Hitler’s deputy, Heinrich Himmler himself. Here is a copy of the plans for Auschwitz-Birkenau, where one million Jews were murdered. Is this too a lie? This June, President Obama visited the Buchenwald concentration camp. Did President Obama pay tribute to a lie? And what of the Auschwitz survivors whose arms still bear the tattooed numbers branded on them by the Nazis? Are those tattoos a lie? One-third of all Jews perished in the conflagration. Nearly every Jewish family was affected, including my own. My wife's grandparents, her father’s two sisters and three brothers, and all the aunts, uncles and cousins were all murdered by the Nazis. Is that also a lie? Yesterday, the man who calls the Holocaust a lie spoke from this podium. To those who refused to come here and to those who left this room in protest, I commend you. You stood up for moral clarity and you brought honor to your countries. But to those who gave this Holocaust-denier a hearing, I say on behalf of my people, the Jewish people, and decent people everywhere: Have you no shame? Have you no decency? A mere six decades after the Holocaust, you give legitimacy to a man who denies that the murder of six million Jews took place and pledges to wipe out the Jewish state.
What a disgrace! What a mockery of the charter of the United Nations! Perhaps some of
you think that this man and his odious regime threaten only the Jews. You're wrong.
History has shown us time and again that what starts with attacks on the Jews eventually
ends up engulfing many others. This Iranian regime is fueled by an extreme fundamentalism that burst onto the world scene three decades ago after lying dormant for centuries. In the past thirty years, this fanaticism has swept the globe with a murderous violence and cold-blooded impartiality in its choice of victims. It has callously slaughtered Moslems and Christians, Jews and Hindus, and many others. Though it is comprised of different offshoots, the adherents of
this unforgiving creed seek to return humanity to medieval times. Wherever they can, they impose a backward regimented society where women, minorities, gays or anyone not deemed to be a true believer is brutally subjugated. The struggle against this fanaticism does not pit faith against faith nor civilization against civilization. It pits civilization against barbarism, the 21st century against the 9th century, those who sanctify life against those who glorify death.
The primitivism of the 9th century ought to be no match for the progress of the 21st
century. The allure of freedom, the power of technology, the reach of communications
should surely win the day. Ultimately, the past cannot triumph over the future. And the
future offers all nations magnificent bounties of hope. The pace of progress is growing
exponentially. It took us centuries to get from the printing press to the telephone, decades to get from the telephone to the personal computer, and only a few years to get from the personal
computer to the internet. What seemed impossible a few years ago is already outdated, and we can scarcely fathom the changes that are yet to come. We will crack the genetic code. We will cure the incurable. We will lengthen our lives. We will find a cheap alternative to fossil fuels and
clean up the planet. I am proud that my country Israel is at the forefront of these advances – by leading innovations in science and technology, medicine and biology, agriculture and water,
energy and the environment. These innovations the world over offer humanity a sunlit
future of unimagined promise. But if the most primitive fanaticism can acquire the most deadly weapons, the march of history could be reversed for a time. And like the belated victory over the Nazis, the forces of progress and freedom will prevail only after an horrific toll of blood and
has been exacted from mankind. That is why the greatest threat facing the world today is
the marriage between religious fanaticism and the weapons of mass destruction. The most urgent challenge facing this body is to prevent the tyrants of Tehran from acquiring nuclear weapons. Are the member states of the United Nations up to that challenge? Will the international community confront a despotism that terrorizes its own people as they bravely stand up for freedom? Will it take action against the dictators who stole an election in broad daylight and gunned down Iranian protesters who died in the streets choking in their own blood? Will the international community thwart the world's most pernicious sponsors and practitioners of terrorism? Above all, will the international community stop the terrorist regime of Iran from developing atomic weapons, thereby endangering the peace of the entire world? The people of Iran are courageously standing up to this regime. People of goodwill around the world stand with them, as do the thousands who have been protesting outside this hall. Will the United Nations stand by their side? Ladies and Gentlemen, the jury is still out on the United Nations, and recent signs are not encouraging. Rather than condemning the terrorists and their Iranian patrons, some here have condemned their victims. That is exactly what a recent UN report on Gaza did, falsely equating the terrorists with those they targeted. For eight long years, Hamas fired from Gaza thousands of missiles, mortars and rockets on nearby Israeli cities. Year after year, as these missiles were deliberately hurled at our civilians, not a single UN resolution was passed condemning those criminal attacks. We heard nothing – absolutely nothing – from the UN Human Rights Council, a misnamed institution if there ever was one. In 2005, hoping to advance peace, Israel unilateraly withdrew from every inch of Gaza. It dismantled 21 settlements and uprooted over 8,000 Israelis. We didn't get peace. Instead we got an Iranian backed terror base fifty miles from Tel Aviv. Life in Israeli towns and cities next to Gaza became a nightmare. You see, the Hamas rocket attacks not only continued, they increased tenfold. Again, the UN was silent. Finally, after eight years of this unremitting assault, Israel was finally forced to respond. But how should we have responded? Well, there is only one example in history of thousands of rockets being fired on a country's civilian population. It happened when the Nazis rocketed British cities during World War II. During that war, the allies leveledRead more: German cities, causing hundreds of thousands of casualties. Israel chose to respond differently. Faced with an enemy committing a double war crime of firing on civilians while hiding behind civilians – Israel sought to conduct surgical strikes against the rocket launchers. That was no easy task because the terrorists were firing missiles from homes and schools, using mosques as weapons depots and ferreting explosives in ambulances. Israel, by contrast, tried to minimize casualties by urging Palestinian civilians to vacate the targeted areas. We dropped countless flyers over their homes, sent thousands of text messages and called thousands of cell phones asking people to leave. Never has a country gone to such extraordinary lengths to remove the enemy's civilian population from harm's way. Yet faced with such a clear case of aggressor and victim, who did the UN Human Rights Council decide to condemn? Israel. A democracy legitimately defending itself against terror is morally hanged, drawn and quartered, and given an unfair trial to boot.
By these twisted standards, the UN Human Rights Council would have dragged Roosevelt and Churchill to the dock as war criminals. What a perversion of truth. What a perversion of justice. Delegates of the United Nations, will you accept this farce? Because if you do, the United Nations would revert to its darkest days, when the worst violators of human rights sat in judgment against the law-abiding democracies, when Zionism was equated with racism and when an automatic majority could declare that the earth is flat. If this body does not reject this report, it would send a message to terrorists everywhere: Terror pays; if you launch your attacks from densely populated areas, you will win immunity. And in condemning Israel, this body would also deal a mortal blow to peace. Here's why. When Israel left Gaza, many hoped that the missile attacks would stop. Others believed yhat at the very least, Israel would have international legitimacy to exercise its right of self-defense. What legitimacy? What self-defense? The same UN that cheered Israel as it left Gaza and promised to back our right of selfdefense now accuses us –my people, my country - of war crimes? And for what? For acting responsibly in self-defense. What a travesty! Israel justly defended itself against terror. This biased and unjust report is a clear-cut test for all governments. Will you stand with Israel or will you stand with the terrorists? We must know the answer to that question now. Now and not later. Because if Israel isRead more: again asked to take more risks for peace, we must know today that you will stand with us tomorrow. Only if we have the confidence that we can defend ourselves can we take further risks for peace. Ladies and Gentlemen, all of Israel wants peace. Any time an Arab leader genuinely wanted peace with us, we made peace. We made peace with Egypt led by Anwar Sadat. We made peace with Jordan led by King Hussein. And if the Palestinians truly want peace, I and my government, and the people of Israel, will make peace. But we want a genuine peace, a defensible peace, a permanent peace. In 1947, this body voted to establish two states for two peoples – a Jewish state and an Arab state. The Jews accepted that resolution. The Arabs rejected it. We ask the Palestinians to finally do what they have refused to do for 62 years: Say yes to a Jewish state. Just as we are asked to recognize a nation-state for the Palestinian people, the Palestinians must be asked to recognize the nation state of the Jewish people. The Jewish people are not foreign conquerors in the Land of Israel. This is the land of
our forefathers. Inscribed on the walls outside this building is the great Biblical vision of peace: "Nation shall not lift up sword against nation. They shall learn war no more." These words were
spoken by the Jewish prophet Isaiah 2,800 years ago as he walked in my country, in my
city, in the hills of Judea and in the streets of Jerusalem. We are not strangers to this land. It is our homeland. As deeply connected as we are to this land, we recognize that the Palestinians also live there and want a home of their own. We want to live side by side with them, two free peoples living in peace, prosperity and dignity. But we must have security. The Palestinians should have all the powers to govern themselves except those handful of powers that could endanger Israel. That is why a Palestinian state must be effectively demilitarized. We don't want another Gaza, another Iranian backed terror base abutting Jerusalem and perched on the hills a
few kilometers from Tel Aviv. We want peace. I believe such a peace can be achieved. But only if we roll back the forces of terror, led by Iran, that seek to destroy peace, eliminate Israel and overthrow the world order. The question facing the international community is whether it is prepared to confront those forces or accommodate them. Over seventy years ago, Winston Churchill lamented what he called the "confirmed unteachability of mankind," the unfortunate habit of civilized societies to sleep until danger nearly overtakes them. Churchill bemoaned what he called the "want of foresight, the unwillingness to act when action will be simple and effective, the lack of clear thinking, the confusion of counsel until emergency comes, until self-preservation strikes its jarring gong.” I speak here today in the hope that Churchill's assessment of the "unteachibility of mankind" is for once proven wrong. I speak here today in the hope that we can learn from history -- that we can prevent danger in time. In the spirit of the timeless words spoken to Joshua over 3,000 years ago, let us be strong and of good courage. Let us confront this peril, secure our future and, God willing, forge an enduring peace for generations to come.Read more:

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy

It's cutie's favorite phrase. School and homework get that tag. So I signed her up for extra after-school stuff. Ballet, Ice Skating and Swimming. After swimming she said she was exhausted. I like that activity.

Jewish Holiday's 2010


Rosh Hashanna was different this year. We no longer live in the city so Dinner at Marlene's wasn't going to happen. We no longer have the Fire Island House and couldn't find enough people to rent a house - so FI didn't happen. We had dinner at our home and went to Alex's for what was left of davening and lunch. Yom Kippur it was the New City Jewish Center. I think we will become members there next year. You can get lost in the crowd and the kids are having fun. Cutie was happy to be in Marilyn's class. She said she likes seeing Marilyn. but it was kinda boring because she knew everything. Gotta love RGHDS

Succot is going on now. After school on Monday we drove to the city to see Succah city. http://www.sukkahcity.com/ it was COOL. We were even there for Mayor Bloomberg's people's choice announcement.



Sunday, September 12, 2010

School Started - First Grade


I don't think there will ever be a school that is good enough for me. If we had unlimited funds I would bring tutors in and homeschool. So this year will be filled with extra activities.

She's doing ice skating Basic Skills 5 (if she passes she can be in Jr. Club) and ballet 1 (next year we can audition for the Nutcracker), we are also thinking of Spanish and swimming. Since we got a puppy, we are also doing a puppy class. I would also like to do soccer, but we signed up too late. Who knew it was so popular?

I'm finding out that she's a fast learning. There's a meet the teacher night on Monday and I don't really want to go. I'm having so many issues with the school right now. From the ridiculous food issues such as the nut allergy rule (can't they just sit at their own table like every other school), they sell dead animals as kosher in the lunch room to the fact there is only one other girl in her class.
My favorite is the fact that all friends were separated this year except the girl with the deep pockets and her best friend - the girl on scholarship. Funny how that happened.

Booklist

Tell Me A Riddle

The Crusible
Death of a Salesman
The Human Comedy

Moby Dick

Romeo and Juliet
Merchant of Venice
Julius Caesar

Darkness at Noon

Macbeth


I will add to the list


Friday, August 20, 2010

The Best Summer Ever


We're really having a great summer. Cutie is finally coming into her own. After graduating from Kindergarten, she went to ROCA. It's an art camp and she really wanted to go. She loved it. I never want to wait in 15min traffic to pick her up from anything - EVERYDAY. After ROCA it was off to ice skating or one of the three town pools.

We went to cutie's friend Julia's Birthday Party. She opened her presents and she received the American Girl Doll. The oohs and ahhs - well Cutie wanted one now. Funny how that happens.

We have a new system. For every book she reads she gets a dollar that can be applied to purchases. It's not working for cutie, but it's working for her friends.

Haley came to visit with Riley. Riley is adorable. We went into the city one day. Haley and Riley did Natural History. Cutie and I - American Girl Doll store and Museum of Art and Design. MAD is a cool museum. They had this exhibit Dead or Alive - it is awesome.

At the end of July we were off to Montana for Paulo's niece's wedding party. When we got back it was time for town camp. 8:30-5:30 and the joy of running around the pool and learning the snack bar.

And she lost her first tooth.
And she discovered the joys of shoes.

On Tuesday nights it's ice skating. She's getting good. I sort of regret not having her do the competition at the end of August. OK - she's only in basic 4 - but you can compete at the level. Her friend Eugin is competing. We have a standing playdate once a week. Cutie does her workbook and Eugin does hers. We will continue through the fall.

Meanwhile, I continued to work for the census on and off all summer. And I'm busy with the website business.

We are also in the market for a dog.

What we haven't done :
the master bath
thermal windows
the garage
bedroom furniture
carpet
However, Paulo refinished the steps to the attic. It wasn't a priority.

Ice skating in the summer. She's also good on rollar blades. If she would only ride her bike.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Public Camp

Cutie is attending public camp for 2 weeks. On the second day they separated the boys and girls. Cutie has a problem with it because her friend Sam (the reason she's going) is in a different group. The counselors seem nice and there's not much to the program.
It's really babysitting with a trip to the pool.

She will learn how to buy things from the snack bar.

Monday, August 9, 2010

Secrets and Montana


We were in Montana from July 27-August 6. It was the first trip we've taken in a few years. First to Glacier National Park. I'm hotel challenged. I always seem to pick the wrong places. First the Belton Chalet. Comfortable bed - but tiny room and the railroad charm wore off quickly. The restaurant at the Belton was quite good. If you are travelling with children - Stay at the Apgar Village Inn. The rooms have a glass wall over-looking the lake. You step outside and jump in.
We hiked Logan's pass, Avalanche Lake (4 miles) and Hidden Lake (6 miles). We found a friend, Natalie, at avalanche Lake and the walk back was EASY. Her family had a house in the park.

We asked a ranger at the Discover Center if there was a place to find fossils/gems. I remembered searching for those things as a kid and was quite successful. She didn't know of anywhere because the rock at Glacier is the wrong kind for those things. But she pointed us in the direction of a brochure in the laundromat. We went to the West Glacier Inn and asked if they knew where the laundromat was. They send us behind the gas station. No brochure there.

Next stop was the Hungry Horse Dam. We walk the Dam and climbed the waterfall on the other side. We asked a person at the visitor center who showed us a rock with a line of limestone through it. She told us to talk to Stephanie at the Dam Canal Shop. We stopped by the Dam Canal Shop and Steph was filled with information. After 1/2 hour she said there was a book she used with her boys when they were young. She didn't have the book at the shop, but if we talked to Murray at the Fly Fishing place - he would have it. We then got a call saying everyone was in Big Fork and never got to speak with Murray.

In Big Fork we stumbled on a book shop and picked up Rock hounding in Montana. We were only 1-1/2 miles away from Libby - a known place for gold panning. Paulo nixed any kind of rock hounding or gold panning. He just wanted to go hiking.

The pre-wedding party was very special. On a secluded lake with a fabulous band. OK it was 1 hour from Big Fork - but it was fun. Cutie got to spend time with her cousins.

The wedding party was at Paulo's brother's house. The wedding took place the previous week in Seattle. The Party was in Big Fork the following week so the whole family could celebrate. It's been a good year for David and Judy. A grandson and wedding.

Again I picked a bad hotel - it was more like a trailer park. We moved into the Mountain House Lodge for a huge room with jacuzzi in the middle. It also had a pool.

Flying home was painless. Cutie left her Polly Pockets on the arriving flight and we stopped by K-mart and bought some as a surprise gift - It made her flight. She did not stop playing the entire trip.

As for secrets -0 I'm reading My Life - Bill Clinton's memoirs. He said he liked to have secrets. Cutie still sucks her thumb from time-t0-time. When asked why - she said she likes to have a secret. Thumb sucking is getting so infrequent - I'm wondering what her secret is now.

Me and the High Dive

I did it too!

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Mid-Summer 2010

ROCA camp is finally over. I was underwhelmed. Pickup time was as painful as it gets. The end of month performance was a waste if time. I guess we are spoiled because of RGHDS. Cutie liked ROCA because it had art instead of sports. Swimming at ROCA is a joke. Paulo worked with her and her crawl is good and breast stroke perfect. So she failed the deep water test a week after she jumped from the high dive. Apparently we never taught her to tread water or doggy paddle. It's too bad ROCA was so bad. I had high expectations.


Monday, July 5, 2010

ELENA KAGAN - I like her

A judicial change to believe in
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By E.J. Dionne Jr.Monday, July 5, 2010
Something momentous has happened to our struggle over the Supreme Court's role when Republicans largely give up talking about "judicial activism," when liberals speak of the importance of democracy and deference to elected officials, and when judges are no longer seen as baseball umpires.
All these things transpired during Elena Kagan's confirmation hearings last week, though you might not know that unless you saw some of the most thoughtful blogs or news stories. And what happened has the potential to transform a listless debate that has been ensnared in conservative categories for at least three decades.
The standard account of Kagan's testimony is that she was brilliant, charming and evasive. Brilliant and charming are right, as even her Republican critics on the committee were gracious enough to concede. And it's true that Kagan didn't fall into the trap of declaring how she would rule on this case or that. She wants to get confirmed, after all.
But far more than she was given credit for, Kagan did lay out a clear judicial philosophy that (1) sees courts as having an obligation to defer to the choices of elected officials except in the most extreme cases and (2) puts the lie to Chief Justice John Roberts's notion that judges are mere "umpires," as if their task was, in Kagan's cutting word, to be "robotic." And it was Republican senators who seemed to be begging her to be a judicial activist and overturn the enactments of Congress. Thus did Sen. Tom Coburn ask her whether she would rule against a law requiring Americans to eat a certain number of fruits and vegetables.
"Sounds like a dumb law," Kagan replied, and then she spoke admiringly of Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes who "hated a lot of the legislation that was being enacted" in the early years of the 20th century "but insisted that if the people wanted it, it was their right to go hang themselves."
"Judges," Kagan declared, "should realize that they're not the most important people in our democratic system of government." It's a line that might usefully be engraved on a wall of the Supreme Court building.
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Yes, Republicans seemed to be admitting implicitly, it is conservatives who are now the judicial activists. That's why they moved on during last week's hearings to a new attack line against liberal jurists as being "results-oriented."
This phrase doesn't work any better for conservatives. As law professor Jonathan Turley pointed out on MSNBC, it's hard to think of a more "results-oriented" case than Bush v. Gore, in which a conservative majority declared that its reasoning in making George W. Bush president was not to be invoked in future cases. Nonetheless, the concession that conservatives are being forced to make on the issue of activism is enormous.

On the matter of judges as umpires, Kagan could have ducked and let the pitch sail past her. She didn't. The umpire metaphor, she said, has "its limits" because it wrongly suggests that judging "is a kind of robotic enterprise" and that "everything is clear-cut." Sounding rather like retired justice David Souter in his recent Harvard commencement address, Kagan said, correctly, that in the hard cases "there are frequently clashes of constitutional values." That's why "not every case is decided 9-0."

Indeed, the umpire metaphor is dangerously and maybe even intentionally misleading. It implies that the answer a particular Supreme Court majority comes up with is the one and only possible answer to a difficult question. If this were true, we would not be having the very political struggle over the court that was so evident during these hearings.
And this was the other important milestone of this confirmation battle that bodes well for the future. While Republican senators dominated Justice Sonia Sotomayor's hearings, Democrats this time displayed a degree of discipline you just don't expect from a party that so often sees discipline as a dread disease.

One Democrat after another reinforced the argument that a conservative court could bring us back to the Gilded Age by ceding power to corporations and undercutting government's ability to act as a countervailing power on behalf of individuals with weak bargaining positions.
Having once made it easy for their opponents to cast them as elitists, progressives are behaving like small-d democrats again. Now that's a change we can believe in -- and an approach that might even win.
ejdionne@washpost.com

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Part Of My Life

Started watch Bethany getting married. Except for the big wedding she keeps saying things she thinks and it's so me.
Also started reading this book with an interesting title "Life Would Be Perfect If I Lived In That House".
The prologue sums up everything I think about regarding real estate and the purchases of all my homes. I wish I didn't find writing so hard.

How to pick up friends

Cutie started art camp this week. She didn't know anyone. When I dropped her off, she didn't want me to wait and meet the counselors.
She loves the camp activities. And she finally made a friend. How? She stared at this boy until he said something. It's good to learn this technique early in life.

Friday, June 11, 2010

A Wiggly Tooth

I was enumerating when I received the call. Cutie's tooth is wiggling and bleeding. Tomorrow is the big Kindergarten celebration. They call it the Author's Tea.
Big strokes of what they did over the year.
Kudos.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Cutting Down Trees

So what are you doing this weekend. Cutting down trees. It's Paulo's favorite thing to do.

He even helps others cut down trees and make firewood for the winter. I'm not sure we'll have enough. He made the NY Post. Thanks Tina.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/business/realestate/residential/tool_time_QxkWQ1JPkXX1iFbrUuk2uM

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Census again

I've been working as a streetwalker for a few weeks now. It's fun and enjoy meeting people. However, the requests we are getting from headquarters leads me to believe they are all a bunch of people who have no understanding of what technology can do.

First a had an official census map that did not resemble the area. So I redid it with g map of the area. Second we are being asked to duplicate and triplicate work because they never organized properly and they never worked in a business environment. So they will now have to add more and more layers of ridiculousness.
If they just computerized properly in the first place we would have been finished. It's almost as if they want us to bill more hours than neccessary.

Too bad they can do undercover boss for the census.

I want a real census gig in 8 years so it will be managed well.

Where do I start?

Friday, May 14, 2010

Census 2010 - Streetwalker

I'm your friendly enumerator and loving it. I'm meeting people in my hood and like them. Off to work.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

More Census Stuff

In case I want to do more in 10 years - here's the schedule.

Fall 2008
Recruitment began for local census jobs for early census operations
Spring 2009
Census employees went door-to-door to update address list nationwide
Fall 2009
Recruitment began for census takers needed for peak workload in 2010
March 2010
Census forms are mailed or delivered to households
April 2010
National Census Day—use this day as a point of reference for sending your completed forms back in the mail
April - July 2010
Census takers visit households that did not return a form by mail
December 2010
By law, the Census Bureau delivers population information to the President for apportionment
March 2011
By law, the Census Bureau completes delivery of redistricting data to states

Census as A Business Case

The US census business model is brilliant. But even more important it works. Over a year ago people took a test to qualify. The test was not difficult. However, it was time consuming. There was one manager question on the test (the question I got wrong). They call you a few days later with your score.
A year later they call the highest scorers with the correct answer to the manager question first to determine if he/she still want a trainer job - Crew Leader. For 2 weeks they go through Crew Leader Training. They then call the rest of the job pool for to serve as enumerators to for the $18/hour job for 4-8 weeks. The Crew Leaders work in pairs. Each one is responsible for an area. They train all the Enumerators together. It takes 4 days of training to cover everything from how to fill out your time sheet to what to say to people who refuse to answer the questions. At the end of the training the Crew Leaders select Crew Leader assistants and assign them enumerators to supervise. My supervisor is Susan. I would have picked her to be a Crew Leader assistant. It's funny that they didn't pick the detail-oriented enumerators - but the ones who are friendly and personable.
I'm amazed at is the quality of the people working to collect census data. Some have children in school and other PT jobs. Others are retired and need extra income. But in all cases they are pretty smart. They are the ones I would have been friends with in school.
The training can be done much more effectively and efficiently. And somehow this system works.
Local Census Office - Ass't Manager for field operations - Field operation supervisors - Crew Leader - Assistant Crew Leader - Enumerators.
It's 4 weeks from the crew leader call to knocking on doors across a district. Pretty amazing.

The only thing I'm wondering about is why if I live in Valley Cottage is my area of Valley Cottage not included in the Valley Cottage/Congers group. They pulled the entire West Hook mountain area and moved it to another area. We have the same zip as the rest of VC - so why aren't we included? And who are we included with? And why wasn't I selected to be an enumerator with that group?
I'm not sure I will ever get to the bottom of this. When my assignment is over I will find out from the LCO.

Other Facts
75% of Clarkstown residents filled out their census forms. So we don't have much work to do.
If you don't produce enough completed forms - you will be let go.

I love this business case model. It works! I want to do the e-learning on it in 10 years.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Day 3 at Census Training

I actually like the whole census thing. Once you get past the really bad script they are meant to read, I could probably have a good time doing this kind of work. The girls who sit near me are great. They are like me. Give us a good teacher and we'll ace the class. Give us a teacher who reads from a script and we'll get it.
The script the trainer is reading from is really bad. He's just reading words on the page as he was told to do - even in the practice session.
Today we have to bring in our schedules for next week. Next week is a killer for me. I really can't give any hours to the project.
Off to day 4. At least we get outside.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

First Day of Census Training

The sheer number of forms we had to fill out to become a census worker boggles the mind. It was around 15 documents with form numbers like D-186F. and OF-306. If it wasn't so painful it would be comical. SNL has to do a skit on it.
The scary part is this may be the beginning of the US becoming a 3rd world country. I'm reading Collapse by Jared Diamond. I'm starting to see a bigger picture and it's scary. We are moving closer to a socialist government. With 1 in 6 people working for the government because they have to manage the forms alone - you can easily see where this is going. My census gig will last about 4 weeks.
The entire training part with all the existing forms and fingerprinting could have been done in 3 hours with the right presentations and script. It was just all wrong. This is an opportunity. It's almost as if I want to start working on Census 2020 from a consulting standpoint.
BTW I liked the people in my group. They would have been my friends in school.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Going for Census Training

Last year right before I started working a consultant at Medco I saw an ad for people looking for work, to take the census exam. It was pretty much the same "speaks to me ad" I saw to organize my meager finances.
And now I'm not sure why I've agreed to be a Census taker. It sounded like a good idea last year when I couldn't find a job. But with several offers and potential offers, it probably is an inefficient use of my time.

For some reason I'm fascinated about the census process. Many years ago I was in a bookstore with a man I had just met and we selected books for the other to read. I gave him The Fountainhead and, I think, The Count of Monte Cristo. He gave me Dead Souls (Gogol) and Lolita. Dead Souls is a Russian novel about a man who visited landowners and bought the serfs who had died since the last census since they were still considered living until the next census.

I called to sign up for the test but never bothered to take the practice test. I thought how hard could it possibly be. It was easy. But, I only completed 22 of the 26 question test and was pretty pissed. It's been 30 years since I took a test and forgot the rule of looking at the answer before reading the question. So I like a moron, solved the problem rather than get the answer. Multiplying 3 digit numbers is a little time consuming. Before they grab my paper I filled in the rest. I signed up to take the exam again before I got my score. It turned out that the first time I took the test I got a 92 (2 of the 4 quesses were right) and the second time it was 96. I think the question I got wrong was the management question. Oh well.

The census bureau has called me seven times about this $18/hour gig. And finally, over 14 months since I took the test, I'm going for census training at the mall. Why we need 4 paid days from 9-5 to ask a few question to our neighbors is beyond me. It must be like sexual harrassment training at ad agencies. It gives us fodder to elevate our clever factor. And since it's a Federal job I need to be fingerprinted. Well, I peed in a cup for the freelance gig at Medco, I guess I can be fingerprinted.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Jobs Jobs Everywhere

The WIN dinner goody bag had a Glamour Magazine. The libra horoscope said I was going to have lots of money next month.

First I thought it was because we are selling our Fire Island House and the closing is the end of April. But then I finally got a call from the Census and I'm to take training next week. Then I applied to a job on Craigslist and I really hit it off with the owner. I love this guy. The whole interview process was like dating. He really liked the way my resume looked, great phone call, the in-person interview was like a great date, the offer came with us having to sign a contract. It's work-from-home advertising for really interesting clients.
Then Wendy the events planner who did WIN asked me to help out with a few more events. Then Jenn asked me to interview to cover for her at Bayer.

But I'm sad about Fire Island. I'll never own a view like that again.

Friday, April 16, 2010

WIN for Wendy

On April 9 I did some work for Wendy to get into work mode. It was a Women In Need fundraising event targeting the fashion Community. Vera Wang was there, Gayle (Oprah's friend), Iman, and a few others.

The balloon event was pretty interesting. They sell white balloons for $100 and giant gold ones for $1000. Tables bought tens of thousands of dollars worth of balloons. The weights didn't hold them down and in some cases knocked over glasses. It was pretty successful.

And the best part, I got a call to begin work at census 2010 and the perfect PT job with Bill as an account manager. I go for training in a few weeks.

Economy is changing and census jobs aren't rigged.

SNL at 12

Last night I watched a DVR'ed Saturday Night Live. Tina Fey - my latest funny person starred. I started thinking about 7th grade. I was 12 and everyone talked about Saturday Night Live. It wasn't yet known as SNL. That happened when I stopped watching.

A classmate of my brother's was a boy named Craig Cohen who's father had something to do with NBC and therefore SNL. I always wanted to go to a taping. Now at 47, watching Tina Fey my idol, I really wished I was in the audience.

My friend Marla hopped on a plane to chicago to see Oprah. Maybe it's time.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

WIN and Wendy

My friend Wendy is an event planner and asked to help with the WIN fundraiser last night at the Waldorf.
1100 people attented including Gail from Oprah, Vera Wang who has a hearty laugh, Iman and table 29 who bought so many balloons we had problems with the balloon weights.
WIN stands for Women in Need. It's a fashion charity. My favorite was learning about the Bloggers table. I wish I knew who sponsored it.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Note to headhunter

Because I can't sent this, I thought I should get my thoughts out on the blog.

You only have one chance to make a first impression and it looks like I blew the interview.
It wasn't the work portion in question, but I know I came across as bland. I was wearing the wrong clothes – (I was coming from my mother’s house). I was so boring – even I wouldn’t hire me. And the funny thing is that I'm multidimensional. On the question of what do you like to do, I drew a blank. I’m so focused on getting an assignment that I forgot all the fun stuff. (Goldsmith, reading, knitting, travelling, Mesopotamia, walking ie.)

Have you ever done a do over interview?

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

I've Lost My Edge

On the train home after a job interview I realized that something is missing. I came off as the most boring person on earth. When asked what else I like to do - I was shell shocked. Did I talk about the books I'm reading from other cultures? Did I talk about walking with my friend discussing the world at large? Did I mention I was a goldsmith? Did I mention my save NY work from economic collapse or that I knit? No. I said I like to work. And I went dark.
It was a job I really wanted. Something is happening to me in the burbs. I'm dying.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Buy Stocks. The economy is back for a while

I have the my economy test. It's when I start getting calls for jobs and people start finding buyers for homes.
My brother has a buyer. Someone who used to work with Paulo found a buyer. And we have a buyer for FI.

I don't think house prices are going up like that have in the past, but we are in a range right now. Of course everything will collapse again beginning in 2013. And there will be a severe problem when property taxes are higher/month than the cost of your monthly mortgage. We are not there yet. And the only way to stop that from happening is lower salaries for government workers.

Don't get me started. But for now happy passover.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Bear Mountain, Stratton, and Fire Island


I haven't written in a while. This weekend my brother invited us up to Stratton for some skiing. It's a ski-in ski-out condo. You skied down to the base and up the ski lift for skiing. So cool.
Cutie is skiing nicely. No blue squares yet - but next year it should be a breeze. I was the only one who had to rent skis. To do this it was the shuttle bus to town.


Cutie is also taking ice skating lessons. On Tuesday we went and she knew many people on the her school bus. She's doing very nicely on skates. She really wants to learn jumps. We are a few years away from that. But she is going backwards.


Here's a photo from Bear Mountain last month.
Also, we are getting ready for Fire Island. We are still trying to sell the house. Some people are looking.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Super Good At Getting Punk Punks (Jumpstart)

I'm loving Jumpstart. Cutie plays on the online version and the download version. The online version gets spends a lot of time loading. "Be patient like a polar bear." who knew polar bears were patient?

Today is the chinese new year Cutie wrote "Gung Hay Fat Choy" in chinese. I wish they had a Chinese class in school. Maybe I can recommend for Fun Tracks.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Cutie and Business

We signed up for Jumpstart. She can play for hours. There was this facebook promo that if you sent Jumpstart to your friends on facebook, your kids would get points. She got 1000 extra points. Now she wants me to get more. I told her that her friends have to sign up and she would get extra points. She's going to tell Sam.

Tell a friend is alive and well in DR world.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Funny In Farci

I've been reading lots of books lately. Nothing heavy. Just social commentaries of people's lives. Some fiction. Some non-.

Funny in Farci - by Faroozah Dumas - Loved
Millie's Fling - Trashy but fun. Reminded me
Queen take's King - Trashy and irrelevant
Prospect Park West - Annoying because I feel like I had to hang with these people when cutie was a baby. But we lived in Manhattan's UWS.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Aliza Skating

Doing the Flamingo.


Sam and Cutie taking a free class.

Friday, January 15, 2010

What We Did on Winter Vacation

It's been a while since I wrote.

Cutie and I saw The Klezmer Nutcracker with Marrissa in the city.
We took a free swim class at the Nyack YMCA and signed up for classes. Cutie is a minnow. She's swimming really well. We have similiar strokes - It's weird.
Shel and Doris drove up from WDC to visit and brought Henry and Molly. They all slept over on Wed night 12/30. Shel and Doris went to their friends and we had the company of Henry and Molly. New Years eve was at Tina's house.
Last weekend we went ice skating. Again Cutie has my love of skating. She's me.

We also went to the gugg for the Kadinsky exhibit. It was very crowded. We also bought as many $5 art books we could carry. We found parking on Park and 90th. It was a miracle.